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I was at a small house party where I consumed a lot of alcohol and smoked some weed, I felt really out of it and a guy said i could sleep in his bed. While we were still downstairs he kissed me and for a minute or 2 I kissed back, but pulled away as I am in a long term relationship. From this point on I told him he couldn't try anything on with me at all as I have a boyfriend. So I willingly went up to his bed and fell asleep pretty fast, I also tend to sleep heavily when I'm drunk. The next thing I know I wake up with my jeans and underwear taken off and he is giving me oral sex. What woke me up was him trying to put his hands inside my bra. Immediately got up, put my clothes back on told him to stay away from me and went back to sleep. I'm not really sure how to deal with this and the couple of close friends I have told haven't been very supportive which is making me blame myself for it as I kissed him back...
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Asked on May 11, 2015 1:32 pm

I am sorry you have been through this experience, the most important part is how you are left feeling. It sounds like you could do with speaking to someone about this. Please call us on 01872 262100 or e mail help@crasac.co.uk and we can have a chat about what you want to do .

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Answered On May 11, 2015 1:37 pm